I was in a new loop of joy for a while. Now I’m back.

I’m Back! Yes, I’ve been out of the business loop for a few months… and I am full of joy with where I have been. My husband and I decided to buy a house, found one within our budget, and bought it! We have rented, essentially all of our lives, so this was a big decision, and a big change. I’m taking away some big lessons too.

One of those lessons is my habit of making do with what I have. It is amazing how we rationalize our divine nature, and settle for the “safety” of the mundane over the joy of our desire. I’m not talking about greed here, or not being able to be grateful for enough, but rather acknowledging that what is important to us over time may well be important for us to have. It doesn’t matter if it is valued by anyone else. We are important enough to experience our own joy..

The Joy of Owning a Home

I realized that, to me, owning a home meant I was no longer living at the whim of a landlord, under threat of having the rug pulled from under me, through no fault of my own. The trials of home ownership are worth it in the end. Yes, I know that living two blocks from the beach, in the tsunami inundation zone, could have its hazards, but I am all for living where I want to live, rather than living where I don’t especially want to live – out of fear. I decide to live in joy.

Yes, ownership within our budget means doing a lot of work to make the house comfortable. That’s especially true of a 1985 manufactured home… two blocks from the beach… on two large lots… which means there is enough gardening to be done… well, forever.

Enough joy for forever

I spent the last three months nesting. Not the easy, sit-back-and-peruse kind of nesting, but a-lot-of-creative-hard-work nesting. I was happy doing it, and I’m joyous now that part of it is done. Oh yeah… I asked for, and got, help with all of this too.

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Ray experiences joy on the beach

Two paragraphs ago my husband and I took a walk down to the beach. We’re back! Joy!

I’m still spending a little time doing body work on others, as well as being part of a belly dance class and helping guide a Tai Chi for Better Balance class. I still ride my bike, and I’m back at the gym – which I realize I really love. I can’t imagine not sharing with others the joy of feeling great in one’s own body.

the-book-of-joyCoincidentally (if you believe in that sort of thing) I just bought several copies of The Book of Joy: Lasting Happiness in a Changing World by Dalai Lama, Desmond Tutu, and Douglas Carlton Abrams. I sent my Mom the first copy and she hadn’t seen it yet, so she was, yes, JOYOUS!

So I’m back.

But I’m paying attention to what really gives me joy. I love interior design using my eclectic sense of style. I do enjoy hard physical work, to a degree. But I still have much more to share in terms of my knowledge and experience, and I will.


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I was in a new loop of joy for a while. Now I’m back. — 2 Comments

  1. Great news for you and Ray!! So much to say and work for and be a part of. I really like your freedom to give news and share your life with me. I hope you write lots and lots. I have lost 25 lbs, and the new doc I have says I’m really healthy–close to my bmi and doing great–ears clean too which is why I went to him in the first place. love, jules

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